Last week was a big one for me. The contract with Oliver was signed which included all my final decisions on upgrades, add-ons and customizations. It begins production on June 26, 2017. I cannot wait for the moment I see it for the first time and the for moment right after when I step into it for the first time.
I do a full-body shiver of delight every time I imagine that scene.
At times when I felt most overwhelmed during the last three years, I would tell myself at the basic boiled-down level, there were really only two things I had to do to become a fulltime RVer:
- Buy a rig, and
- Move into a rig.
I’m not a dope, so I know this formula oversimplifies the process. And that, in reality, there are about a thousand things that have to happen to complete each of my two-steps to fulltiming.
But it always made me feel better. I could tell myself I only had to do two things and everything else was details. The small stuff.
So today I report step one has officially been checked off the list.
One of the biggest “details” of step number two is downsizing. I can’t very well move into a rig until I have downsized enough to actually fit into one. I have written about various downsizing options here, here, here and here.
Once sufficiently downsized, the next “detail” is to sell my house. There are many reasons not to sell one’s house when embarking on the fulltime RV life. In fact, there are probably more reasons not to sell than to sell. But I am selling. I will share how I came to the decision. Time will tell whether or not it was the right one.
I met with a realtor a week ago. She confirmed what I already knew. My carpet needs replaced before I list the house. To be honest, it needed replaced when I bought the place a decade ago. But I ended up adding a puppy to my family. And between the dog and the cat, I have had vomit, dirty paws, hair clumps and many unidentified stains that make the very light-colored carpet look permanently dirty. I took the “why bother” attitude when it came to replacing the carpet.
It also might be possible that a couple of glasses of red wine have been spilled, a slice of pizza ended up face-down and a woman’s size 8 shoe print on every other stair after she unknowingly stepped in dog-poop also contributed to the problem.
However, for the purposes of this discussion, let’s agree that I haven’t replaced my carpet sooner because I have naughty pets.
This week the checklist only has one item. Purchase new carpet. Once it is installed, it will be time to put my house on the market which will bring me that much closer to completing the second step of my two-step plan.
What does any of this have to do with today’s blog post?
This preamble gives you the backstory which is necessary to understand the lesson I learned. It’s this:
There is such a thing as downsizing too much. It’s the downside of downsizing.
In my mind, it would be best to present my house to prospective buyers as empty as possible so they can envision their own lives and possessions taking shape in the space.
Not so, says my realtor. She says most people have trouble visualizing how an empty room will look filled and that it’s my job to stage each room with what it might be for them. For example, she said one of my bedrooms should be staged as a kid’s room even though I don’t have children. Most buyers will and we want them to “see” their own children playing and sleeping in that room.
When I proudly show her the furniture I hauled to the garage she says it all needs to come back in. I refrain from showing her the body bruises I received from the very heavy lifting. She says I should remove it from Craig’s List and sell it after we have an offer on the house.
The realtor tells me to look on the bright side. The near-empty house will make carpet laying a breeze. I am not at all brightened by the bright side.
As she talks about empty walls being the death of a potential sell, I am thinking about all the hours that went into making those walls pristine and empty by removing every nail, filling every hole with putty and repainting them. I remember the multiple trips with a full car, including wall art, to charity. And now she is telling me to go buy large wall art!
My realtor has been in business for 22 years so I will her advice to heart. Though I do so begrudgingly.
After some thought, I’ve decided I may be able to cobble together borrowed items to staged my house.
I will borrow extra furniture from work to turn one empty bedroom into an office. As for the child’s room, my plan is to take the boxes I have packed and make a fake bed. I’ll add my air mattress on top. Then cover with a quilt and toss on a few stuffed animals. I can also create a covered child’s table (another cardboard box) and decorate it with color books, markers, and blocks which I can also borrow from work.
Fingers crossed that no prospective buyer sits on the kid’s “bed.” The results would not be pretty.
I hope this blog serves to inspire others to take risks (despite the immense fear) and to Supersize their lives. I know what I am doing is unique to me. But I share this story for those who might be downsizing and selling a house.
What I wish I’d done was change the order of my to do list. I can see now it would’ve been advisable to speak with a realtor early on. We pay them a percentage of our sale for a reason. Lesson learned. Albeit too late to do me any good.
Onward.
Debbie,
My realtors told me the same load of crap! Don’t do any of it. Stay on your path.
If she can’t sell the house un-staged get another realtor.
I bought my house empty, and buyers have enough imagination to see a room they want.
Sell or donate everything! You won’t regret it.
Onward!
Alison
http://www.road2reinvention.net
Interesting to hear both perspectives about staging vs. not. I hope to simply offer a clean empty house. Like you, though, step one in that direction is getting rid of our nasty carpet.
Hope you get a buyer quickly and for a good price 🙂
I wouldn’t even buy new carpet. Give the buyer a carpet incentive and let them pick what the want. Get three bids/estimates.
Clean the existing carpet, or pull it up.
Maybe they will want hardwood floors?
Thanks, Teresa.
Thank you, Alison! I had several people reach out to me here, on Facebook and in private emails. All said similar things which has really helped to take the pressure off of rounding up and hauling a bunch of furniture back to my house. I’ve thought a lot about it and it might be that I end up somewhere in the middle between a completely empty house and a fully staged house. One person said her house sold in 2 weeks (here in Anchorage) and it was empty. I suspect more key factors are things like the right starting price, good neighborhood, etc. I’ll let you know how it all plays out.
If you buy carpet and pad from Home Depot right now, they will lay it for free. But maybe if you just got your carpet cleaned professionally, that will be good enough. You can actually hire someone to stage your home but I believe people still buy places that are not staged. Toby thinks you should get a new realtor.
Love, Marie XOX
Hello Debbie!
I just found your blog, read it all in one night and feel compelled to introduce myself…… my name is Kit, and we have much in common!
I am 51 and, like you, have realized that I have modest retirement aspirations that include exploring the continent in an RV. I, too, am choosing between an Oliver and a Bigfoot. I, too, have moved my plans up by almost 2 years (will be retiring in March 2018). I, too, have spent countless hours researching, analyzing and absorbing as much info as possible (more as a function of my obsessive nature than my organizational style, but the outcome is the same). I, too, am planning to visit Tampa, the Oliver, and the Bigfoot plant.
I felt like you were writing my future…. a funny time warp…. just a little out of sync….. just a few steps ahead.
There are differences: I am a nurse. I own and plan to keep and rent out a condo. I have a small storage space at the condo which I will keep for my own use and which spares me from some of the truly difficult choices you have regarding downsizing. I will continue to work in nursing, but in a very different capacity, and only when I choose to.
I look forward to re-establishing my connection to the here and now (I find living in anticipation of a different future foreign and excruciating). I look forward to unimaginable experiences, and I look forward to meeting like-minded people.
So there you have it. I was struck by the similarities in our stories. I wish you luck in your new adventure and I look forward to hearing more about your Oliver.
Thanks for your stories and insights, and…… Hello!
Wow! That is amazing.I’m am so glad you reached out. My sister is also a nurse so I know some of the issues you might face on the road but if you find a location you love, a 12-week travel assignment might be a perfect way to fill the bank account and explore the area before moving on to the next place. Another nurse RVer (at Less Junk, More Journey) goes back home a few times a year and takes fill-in shifts for a week or two. You definitely have a skill that should give you options. You will love the Tampa RV Show and the Oliver tour. I never made it to Bigfoot nor did I find any to look at (except for the one over-the-truck camper that my local Bigfoot “dealer” has in stock). If you are in or near a bigger area, you might have options I just didn’t. I’d love to hear back from you about your Bigfoot tour. I’ve seen that many RV owners still make the rounds at RV Shows so I hope someday to see one in person. Or maybe meet someone on the road who would give me a tour of theirs.
I’m so excited and happy for you. I’m still in the phase of focusing on the future but, like you, cannot wait for the day when I simply get to appreciate the day and moments I am in. I hope we will get the chance to connect on the road. The nine months until your retirement will fly by as you are preparing for this HUGE transition in your life.
Hi Kit,
I’m Debbie’s sister, the RN. I’m ecstatic that you 2 connected! I’m excited for both of your journeys. I took on the role of a flight attendant 4 yrs ago & am currently in the process of seeking & applying for opportunities to work from home/online utiling my RN background, while I’m not flying. I looooooove to see people steering their life in these cool creative directions! Cheers
Hi again Debbie and Missy!
A little more about me:
I’m Canadian, from southern Ontario. I’ve enjoyed my nursing career (27 years as a palliative care nurse, mostly in the community), but am looking forward to the “denouement” of my career. I have no desire to lisence in another province or state and you can’t teach an old dog new tricks (unless you’re taking about learning to speak French, play the bag pipes, or throw a pot on a pottery wheel…… all things I hope to accomplish on the road) so for the time being I’ll be returning home for the occasional work stints.
I am and have always been single and I have two small dogs who can’t wait for me to retire.
Missy, the flight attendant job offers many perks, I’m sure, but I’d be afraid of throwing up on a passenger….. I far prefer terra firma with my hands on the wheel. I have often thought on-line teaching might be a fun way to earn an income.
I presently spend 8 months of the year in my little Alto trailer by Safari Condo. I purchased this trailer (my “cuckoo’s nest”) 6 years ago with the intent of vacationing with it. While renovating my then home I had to move out of the house for 6 weeks and that’s how I discovered I LOVE living in my little nest. I’ve been spending as much time as possible in it since then. It never occurred to me before that full-time RV living was a “thing”.
While my nest is almost perfect for my needs, it is not a 4 season….. hence my quest for another trailer (although I haven’t entirely given up on trying to make modifications that could see me through a cold snap).
I plan to tow with a truck with a cap… but I understand the wisdom of a cargo van.
Like you, I have a list of places I want to go and things I want to do. I can’t see what life beyond the road looks like just yet, but I won’t be surprised if I’m happy on the road for many, many years. I read in every blog that people find a community out there, and I feel like this just might be how it starts.
So, I think that’s all I can think to tell you. Sorry for the long winded comment, but the similarities are uncanny and I’m am enjoying this chance encounter.
Nice to meet you both in the virtual world,
Kit.